Taylor Swift Controversy

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I want to know what’s the big idea? Why is everyone so concerned in things they shouldn’t be concerned about? I have been hearing a lot of hype about the Harry Styles and Taylor Swift. Oh she’s a bad girlfriend, she’s a whore, slut, can’t sing.

Why does it matter, other people obviously like her if she is making lots of money and people are buying her albums. If you don’t like her then don’t listen to her music, hear it on the radio? Change the channel. Someone is humming it? Walk away. Its that simple. If you think you can do SUCH A BETTER JOB then go join the freaking music industry. Nobody likes a hater, don’t be jealous cause she is making like 57 Million dollars a year and all your doing is on the internet trash talking her.

She’s a whore? She is 23 and she has been with like about 6 guys and since 2010 she has been with 2 guys. Do you know how many people in the world out there sleep with every guy they see in the streets. How many people wake up and is pregnant and don’t know who the baby daddy is. At least she is doing something with her life and not flaunting her sex life around like rihanna, I don’t hear complaints about that. Every song she makes it’s about sex. But when Taylor Swift makes a song about her feelings and helping her audience connect on a deeper level its a cat fight. 

Like for real? Is this really what our world has come to, when someone does something good with their life it’s a problem and we have to find something to speculate upon. However, all the hoes out there (Lindsey Lohan, Britney Spears, Nicki Minaj etc..) and they are getting street creds? If so I have no faith with this future generation.

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Stereotyping the friend zone.

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Friend zone definitions-

Urban Dictionary: What you attain after you fail to impress a woman you’re attracted to. Usually initiated by the woman saying, “You’re such a good friend”. Usually associated with long days of suffering and watching your love interest hop from one bad relationship to another.

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Did you notice any similarities? After scrolling through google, watching tons of youtube videos I noticed one major detail.

When someone thinks of a friend zone they always tend to say SHE friend zoned HIM. Maybe it is true that mostly women friend zone men but isn’t that basically like us saying ‘why can’t I find a good guy?’

Now that we have the air cleared, let’s talk about how to get out of the friend zone for men. Since guys seem to struggle with this I’ll make a guide for them.

Escaping the friend zone for MEN:

It’s a tough world out there. You like a girl and you give her your all, always being there for her no matter what but she just thinks of you as a friend. Well here’s a tip: Maybe she doesn’t. Confused aren’t you? I speak from experience when I say that if your a good looking guy and your always there for a girl no matter what, and you haven’t told her your interested yet. Then maybe she is just calling you a bro for her purposes. For example I once liked this guy (Jacob, if you’ve been keeping up with my other post) and I friend zoned him because I thought he wanted to just be friends. I would sometime say things like: ‘You’re the best brother ever, and thanks for being there for me.’  But I would only say that because I thought that’s what he wanted to hear. Why would I do that? Because I am a girl and its just what we do. We over analyze things too much, and don’t act on our feelings more because we don’t want to screw things up.

Chances are she is probably thinking I would rather have our friendship that date and lose it all. Sweet but not so sweet at the same time, but here is what YOU have to do. Show her that you would rather risk it all for her, that it’s worth it. Tell her how much you like her that will make her heart melt. And don’t come up with some cheesy fake stuff, tell her how you can’t go a day without seeing her. And everyday that she is not there you can’t concentrate, that the thought of her not being with you makes you go crazy. And when you stare into her eyes its like your gazing upon a million stars, hmmm well maybe a little cheesy.

Yeah sure your probably like well this is your advice? Confronting her. But it’s the truth, this and patience. Time will make everything work out and if she says no then maybe she just really doesn’t like you and it’s not meant to be. Also, if you have anymore questions or topics don’t be scared to shoot me a message or reply.

I know sounds like a lot to remember, but i guess it’s just another Teenage Problem.

Choose me? Job Hunting

You know what i hate? Job hunting, especially at this time when you have no experience. It seems like everyone wants to hire someone with experience. But how are we suppose to get job experience if no one wants to hire us. Like maybe i am just way too picky considering i interned in high places like Tampa General Hospital, MOSI museum and at schools.

But why should i have to lower my standards. What if i don’t want to work with groceries and i just want to jump right into the restaurant business for a part time job minimum wage while i am still in school. I mean can you blame a girl, its not like I’m an irresponsible teenager. I’m 18 years old i know about maturity.

UGHHH….. Teenage Problemz

Love me like a movie

ImageI’m pretty sure we have all watched one of those chick flicks where the girl pushes the guy away and the guy comes running back  and refuses to give up on her. Yeah I want to find that!

Why can’t I find guys like that? I am not saying that no guy is like that because I know that’s not true. I see it around me everyday, but it just seems like i am attracted to the wrong guys. I mean i date all these douche bag guys and they end up screwing me over.

And I know its not them its me, YES! I said it. For some reason i seem to be attracted to players. I have perfectly qualified men that’s flawless, but for i go for the douche bag that i know is going to screw me over. What’s sad is that after the screw me over they find love with another girl.

BTW (By The Way): When i say screw me over I don’t mean sex, in fact if that ever happens you would be the first to know. 

Like i had a great relationship it lasted a long time a year and a half to be exact and everything was pitch perfect (SEE WHAT I DID THERE) and then he left for a basketball scholarship and went to Atlanta. Let’s call him Aaron for privacy purposes. 

Also just the start of this school year i dated a guy lets call him Jacob. Yeah, he was my best friend and he dated my best friend my sophomore year. However she left the school (we are still best friends know btw) and basically he was going after me. I told him no because of my best friend and then after he went out with this girl lets call her Alex and they broke up at the end of my Junior year. During that time when they were dating we were still really close and somewhat flirty. Everyone at school was saying we should go out, we eventually went out over the summer (BIG MISTAKE.)

After, not keeping in touch we pretty much broke up. The second day of school we got back together and then everyone was all like i told you it was going to happen. We broke a month later because he still had feelings for Alex his ex. They broke up and he kept talking to me about how she is a stupid whore. However, he pretty much went out with every girl in the school after that and he is a cheater. Now everyone things that i should warn everyone not to go out with him cause he is a cheater.

He never cheated on me though cause i was like best friends with his best friends so i would know. BTW he broke up with me and that’s because he said he would normally just go out with the other girl at the same time but he didn’t want to hurt me. 

Anyways he tells me about all these stupid stuff he does and all his girlfriends like don’t want me around him because they think we still have chemistry. I think so too but maybe that’s because even thought he is a douche bag i still have feelings for him.

UGHH……. Teenage Problemz

First official blog

All about me:

I know sounds conceited but i would just like to share a personal connections with my viewers. I would also love to get to know YOU. This way we both know about each other and understand each others perspectives. So here it is:

My name is Tiffany, however before i get into details I would like to apologize in advance for my grammar and English. Anyways, here is the major details: I was born in Jamaica but currently live in Florida. I am 18 years old senior in high school. I am like a super kid, I act, look and talk young for my age. Anyways, that’s everything about me, tell me about you?

Reason for blog:

I created this blog to discuss things that is currently going on in my life and the world. You know, teenage problems. Like boy troubles, school drama, family problems and economic – NOT REALLY! However, I do apologize if my post are a bit random and jumpy. My mind flows with a million thoughts. And i just feel the need to type what i think.

That’s about it. I promise my next post/blog will be something more interested so please like, follow and comment. You won’t regret it, I am a bit new to this so it might take me a couple of days to get a hand on things.

New to blogging

Congratulations to me on joining WordPress. Know I can blog and express my feelings about teenage problems that’s going on in my life, and i would love it if you guys could help me out with situations and i promise to help you guys as well. Also share, like and follow my page. I am new to this right now but i promise my post will be super exciting and funny and you won’t regret it (:Image